Sunday, January 9, 2011

A year full of joys,commitments,fights, wonderful marriage anniversary together

Now that asks for a pat in the back for a year long togetherness in a wedlock.But i just love this relationship.There were days when i was so nervous to even think about getting into this relationship.And now completing already a year ...cannot believe,its true.

Generally when a girl completes 21 years of age in India its like the girl is made to realise

that she is of marriagable age and its dangerous for her to stay alone anymore.Though the attitude of girls towards life is changed,but the above status still exists.Especially thier mothers become thier villains and suck thier blood till thier daughters are not bought to the altar to say "i do".But that is an old story now.Atleast in my life.Am a married women now.But i do feel sometimes that i should have married somewhere in later years of my life and not now.I have missed all that fun of bieng a single anymore.But this life also has its own charm in itself.A person who cares for you,loves you,understands a life partner.Well,i can say all this has come true in my life.With a wonderful husband around life has been much more loving and fun than before.I can say..ek pyar ka thadka tho har ek ke life main hona hi chahiye.But guys do not take me might be thinking andy tho fully fida hai apni shaadishuda zindagi main.No no no....nothing at all.There are and were a lot of hiccups ,fights,misunderstandings and what not.After all the manana and pyaar karna only then it would bear a lovely fruit.

Its always told that life is not a bed of roses.Especially the married life.It's true.Life is not at all that way.But one can get a few rose petals and sprinkle them here and there and give it a new meaning.I know am too young to lecture on marriage.Whatever experience i have got from a year long stay together,i thought of sharing with all my dear ones.I am sure you guys are much more knowledgeable and smarter than me.

Friends, do not be in a hurry to marry.Just because you were one of the guests to you friends or relatives wedding.You watched all the glamour,shor sharabha,backdrops,costumes,music,photographs does not mean that is marriage.My dear, yeh tho sirf trailer tha picture abhi bakhi hai mere dost.Because wedding is only for a day.But marriage is for the life time.

So guys enjoy ur life as it comes.They say do not take life seriously.But i say,take life seriously only then you can live every moment of it preciously.



Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Trip to Mangalore-a memorable vacation

Oh yes.It is a memorable one.I can say right from the first day when we landed to India till date.All you people there here's wishing all of you a wonderful and funfilled 2011 ahead.May all your dreams come true.
A few of my Husband's friends this time asked me why am i not writing any blog now.I was shocked for a while and then blushing.I had never got that appreciation before personally.Many thanks to them for thier inspiration to write this blog.I never knew that there are people who followed my blog so honestly.Therefore,what better topic can i pick than sharing my vacation moments with all you great people out there.Ek choti si documentary tho zaroor ban sakthi hai...

As i told before my vacation is memorable right from the day i landed to India.We landed to B'lore from S'pore and thought of shopping for a while in Commercial St and Forum Mall.I was very excited once i touched down to B'lore and even more excited to visit Commercials.After the shopping we had to travel to our hometown M'lore by the bus at 10.30 pm that night.All excited about it (unaware about the sufferings in the later part of the night journey).The bus was smoothly running through the roads.As we were exhausted after our flight journey and shopping,we were fast asleep even before the bus took off.But after sometime there comes the worst.The bus started shaking as if its dancing for the tunes of "Sheila ki jawani" & "Munni badnaam hui".Aisa lag raha tha ki mano hum log kaanto par chal rahen ho.Our sleep had gone with the wind.One was lucky if he/she were in thier seats atleast for a second.So after all this dhakka mukka's finally a break of 3 hrs on the ghat section.Ek aisi jagah bus ruk gayi jahan na pani tha,na khana aur nahin network and a thick forest.

However the bus then travles after a break again on the thorns.The tyres of the bus were so patient that they did not trouble us at all.But they could not take it anymore and died off once down from the ghats.So another 1-2 hrs of break for the repairs.We all refreshed ourselves with a tasty dosa and chutney at a nearby hotel.So then after all these hardships we reached "safely" to Udupi.Seriously never knew we should have been nominees for arjuna awards for reaching our hometown.All thanks to the driver and his assistant for our safe departure.

All happy after meeting our near and dear ones and then taking a good nap.As this was required for a month long dramas of weddings,christenings,housewarmings,Communions and what not.Forgot to add Viral fever program which should have been our top of list as a priority.But as they say sickness never comes with invitation.
I had my share of viral fever,sneezing,throat infection,running nose and so as all at home.But we never gave up.We were and are attending all the possible programs here.
We also needed to energise ourselves to digest the feedbacks from the people in M'lore about our beauty and our body weights.So the feedbacks are as follows :" Audi (my pet name),you have not changed in terms of your complexion.But you have lost wieght", "You have not changed at all,niether put on nor lost wieght".Mano ki i went to Singapore for a beauty peagent and just returned after not even getting qualified in the final 10 contestants.Or i had been to Singapore for a Botox treatment to change my complexion/chop a part of my nose or chin/chop a part of my tummy.Nonsense.People can be so illiterate..never thought.After all this personality feedbacks there comes a feedback on family planning.Here i felt as if iam required to ask the permission from the the people here in M'lore inorder to when shall i plan for our baby.Amazing.But fun to listen to.
Whatever said and done.I love my Mangalore.As this is the place i opened my eyes and walked with my tiny l'll legs.I love the culture,the roce,the marriages,the baila,the meeting up with friends and relatives,the yummy food by mumma.The feeling is so different when i landed in India.I had my goosebumps.I felt as if i have come to heaven.An heaven where all my people are present.I just love them.